Wednesday, September 13, 2017

Its all about being Healthy :-)



“I HAVE ALWAYS BEEN FIT”, at least that was the illusion I mollified myself with at times when the mirror spoke the truth or my heart would start palpitating after a mediocre jog. Not so long thereafter on a warm California evening last summer I realized that I must stop lying and actually make efforts towards the cause, so that I can positively say that “I AM FIT”!

Sounds simple enough. I got a plan and I have done this before, didn’t I? I was a dedicated dancer who has practiced the discipline 3-4 hours a day; and mind you Indian Classical dancing is no mean feat! I can definitely do this, and saying so I commence my journey of losing those extra 20 pounds from my ideal weight and body goals. A journey to become my own version 2.0, new and improved and fit and…well you get the gist!

I just need to do a few things - 
1. Find Time
2. Find a workout place
3. Work on a diet plan ( And I DO NOT mean skipping meals OR following GM diets and other shortcuts)
4. Avoid junk
5. Set realistic and right expectations
6. Incorporate Variety

Simple enough! Well not so much. I am not a twenty something anymore, your body changes and so does your food requirements. I was much more concerned about my sagging energy levels than anything else.  I need to change this and I must change this immediately. But however much we want to, we always fall back onto the same set of excuses of not having time, work deadlines, commute times, bad traffic, being a homemaker or being a mom (in many cases) and so on and on the list never dies.

The biggest hurdle to fitness is Procrastination and Lethargy. Avoid these and start already! 

1. Find Time
I chalked out a schedule amidst multiple produce releases which necessitates longer work hours and non-negotiable deadlines, not to forget the long commute to work, maintaining a home by my own and finding spare time for your friends and family, your near and dear ones! It has been a year so far and I have stuck to my schedule like glue…This is key 
Club vFIT is extremely accessible and open at all times for VMware employees, this was very convenient to me to chalk out a schedule after work hours. Having said that, there are days when it is absolutely impossible to follow the clock. I make sure that I still visit the gym whenever I can, for whatever duration possible, just to unwind and relax. It is important to work out and maintain the pattern, even if it is just a 15 min run on the treadmill - I DO NOT skip it!

2. Find a workout place
Club vFIT provides a highly competent fitness center with all the pumps and weasels and a group of very enthusiastic trainers who are always ready to show your the ropes. Without having to travel anywhere else, here was an ideal place right in the campus, available throughout the day where I can spend an hour or two nourishing my body. It is really cost effective as well at a mere 25 dollars a month. It has a basketball court, a squash court, a yoga studio and a dance studio as well as a full blown gym with trainers, spinners, treadmills, cycles, weight stations and all equipment towards a total body workout. It also provides groups fitness and training opportunities throughout the weekdays like bollywood dancing. pilates, zumba, TRX, boot camp and many others. There are also amazing yoga teachers conducting sessions over the week.

3. Work on a diet plan
We become what we eat and what we eat plays a big part in our fitness journey. This is of utmost importance as well as the most fun part of it. Trust me- I am a big foodie! 
To start with I narrowed down on all produce, veggies, fruits, meat, fish, diary and grains I like to eat and began researching ways to make healthier meal choices using them. Thereafter I started making different types of cuisines, following meal prep plans (LINK TO THE CONCEPT), educating myself from food blogs, youtube videos, incorporating newer spices. I have never eaten better and being a resident of California helps a ton! Being blessed to live in a land of plenty there is no dearth of things to try and food to experiment with. Also being unrestricted in my food choices helps my flexibility, However I think everybody can chalk out their diet plan with their preferred food choices quite effectively. YOU JUST HAVE TO PUT YOUR MIND TO IT! 
There are professional advisors available at vFIT who can help with this aspect.

4. Avoid junk
I know, you know, we all know…..i was at the party, it was games night, I was tired, wanted something comforting and sometimes “OH! Just what the heck! I wanted the big bucket of fried chicken wings”, right!!! There is no harm in doing that once in a while, but we must decide on the frequency.
Having cheat days in your diet plans helps alleviate longing for non-healthy but immensely tasty food items. We all have cravings and it is okay to give into them on cheat days. Learn to trick your mind into the pattern. I always cheat on Saturdays or Sundays when I savour my pasta, lick on my ice creams, munch on my chips and drink grown up juice :-P

5. Set realistic and right expectations
I have lived each of the above 4 pointers in a very sincere manner and was able to reach my ideal wight and body goals within the first three and a half months. (This will vary with your age, gender, body type and diets). The important thing is to not give up when your expectations don’t meet reality. We many a times have unrealistic expectations of achieving a body type and size, more often than not these weight goals and body types are triggered through media images, constant push in the society towards being skinny ( mind you that is NOT healthy) , body shaming and a plethora of merchandise which requires men and women to look a certain way. Finding our own body and beauty is a part of our fitness journey and it should be a dynamic and continous process throughout our lives. 

6. Incorporate Variety
Having variations in the workout plan helps a lot and adds towards exercising different muscle groups. I find it a good idea to sometimes go for a run in the park or to go for a swim or a weekend hike or may be even cycle to work (if you can). Remember it is always possible to work out beyond a gym. Personally I have a schedule which incorporates dance, yoga, boot camp and weight training over different days in the week to facilitate a variety in my workout. Ocasionally I will plan for treks in the vicinity or have a dance party at home. Incorporating variety in your fitness regime will strengthen different parts of your body. For instance yoga induces flexibility and strengthens muscles which you can never work out using machines or weights. Variations will also ensure that you do not get bored of the predictable pattern and give up on your fitness journey. 


So now that we have all figured out a plan and decided on a path, things should finally be simple right; alas it is NOT! The most crucial mantra in any fitness regime in my opinion and knowledge is - Sticking to the Plan’. I am going 3 years sober on track and hope to continue my journey for long. Today I can positively say that “YES! I am fit and I am healthy.” Today I am my version 2.0 - a version who feels happy and excited and energetic throughout the day. But this is not the destination, fitness is never a destination for me. It is always a journey - it is about leading a refreshing life full of power - both physical and mental. I believe being healthy promotes a better mind, lesser worries, lesser toxins in the body. It makes me optimistic and enthusiastic towards making a better me, it makes me want to help others and make a better saner world. The 2.0 version of me today wishes to be 3.0, someday it will wish for a 4.0 and so on. The motivation is always to be the BEST version you can possible be today and strive to be a BETTER THAN THE BEST tomorrow :-)



Cheers

Sucheta

An Accidental Realization

I never credit myself to be highly intellectual or being blessed with abundant maturity; however I always knew that I have a gift to absorb, to understand, to appreciate and to accept. Yes, that's what makes me feel good about myself, to never be judgemental.... to never have an absolute sense of wrong and right but to accommodate for the greys and the other shades in life.... in myself or in others.

I have known people throughout my life,..oh I love them,... meeting new faces in new places,... in some of the most unassuming and unpredictable circumstances... chanced encounters, a beautiful opportunity to know someone new,..a stranger. Its like being presented with a small window.... and its upto me to open it to let the breeze of a new life come in.... and in some cases of certain no-no's (here i refer to the polluted air and hot smoke) its again upto me to keep that window closed,..or better latch the bolt tighter and use a lock :P. 

More importantly... I always believe in the greatest gift by God - this life, an opportunity to know, to try, to do whatever you want,. to go wherever you to want to go, to see this world for all its heavenly beauty- divinity in nature, diversity in its creatures, to feel humility in the vastness and the variety of mother earth, to hear the sounds of life, to be blessed with near and dear ones- who care and whom you can care about... isn't all this simply fantabulously miraculously wonderfully amazing! 

But many a times, more often than not...all of us get happily lost in our own constrained and limited worlds... our homes...our jobs...our salaries...our goals & targets,...our friends & families...our infatuations & dreams....just a limited cozy cocoon of self-absorption and self-comfort "Our" world. We don't have the time nor the inclination to stop by and see something more than we want to, hear something that is not important or entertaining to us or do something apart from the mundane chores beyond our immediate self-interest or preferred comfort zones. In short we become trapped in our self-created world.... and need a reminder or a remembrance which can pull us out of it for a while... show us something which is beyond our needs and make our hearts to appreciate and understand things that are new... to look beyond "US".

I got my reminder a few days back when I met a new person. She seemed just the average next door girl at first sight,...loves to sleep once back from office...quite honest and frank (more than average people) one who doesn't feels embarrassed to admit her lack of finances, one who doesn't shy away from accepting frankly the male attention she received & expression the desires she feels to have a special someone in her life... in short an average, simple, fun-loving, happy-go-lucky, most fascinatingly normal girl with not a single care in her life- how lucky!. Just that yesterday night I found out that this lucky carefree girl was not forever so,..she had a chronic case of blood cancer as a child and had multiple blood transfusions over her life time and two major bone marrow surgeries over a period of several years to get cured of this malignant ailment....thank goodness! To think of the fact that this happy-go-lucky sweet girl standing next to me has suffered years of pain and torture facing her own death and defeated it,..is doing well for herself & her family filled me with a sense of respect & admiration for her....a true warrior!

Everything said and done,.... the point i want to convey is that is important to take some time and smell the flowers....to know people...there is so much to learn from everything and everyone. Not every smiling face is always happy, neither is every tear a declaration of final defeat. Each one of us has something unique to learn and appreciate....it is only upto us to open our eyes and hearts to them.


A toast to such people around us!

The Elements

Fire
I desire the passion to try things new
the zeal to make impossibles come true
the energy to force obstacles melt through
A power and rigour to chase my dreams

Air
I desire the agility to keep proceeding
the speed and force to stop at nothing
the freshness which makes life worth living
An enthusiasm to challenge supremes

Earth
I desire the strength nowhere else to be found
the patience to do things profound
the humility which can keep me ground
A tolerance to pursue extremes

Water
I desire the continuity to stay in the game
the life and miracle to prevent being insane
the depth and heights to lead the path to fame
A purity which cleanses human sins


I desire all these and even more
to get ahead in the race and win for sure
break away the chains of doubts and chores
to cherish the gift of "life" like never before



To desires never ending

Dream Again

It is never too late to let go
It is never too hard to change and redo
What we wronged some long time ago
Could stand upright once again

Beyond all that is lost and forgone
Stand the precious lessons we learn
It is not enough to look back and only yearn
There is strength behind every pain

Our hearts are what we all must follow
Everything against it is fake and hollow
Stretch to the depths and forget the shallow
Hold on! there will be rain

Hopes are all gonna come true
Lest we behold our good virtue
In drops of the first morning dew
Sow the tiny seeds of your grain

Nothing we hoped is forever gone
No need to cry, don't be forlorn
To be or not to be- that's where we are torn
Believe in youself to seek pleasure insane

Dream again
Be free again
Try again
Be "you" again

I love walking in the rain....

I love walking in the rain
so that no one can see me cry
long have I sufferred intolerable pain
I swear I can never deny
how can I still be living and sane
when long ago my heart did die?


I love shivering in the snow
so that no one can hear the sobs i hold
the joy which lied far away to follow
for momentary laughter an eternal smile i sold
scared in the realms of a life so hollow
why is it best to leave some tales untold?


I love staying in the woods alone
so that no one beckons me back to the crowd
wanna run far away into depths unknown
someplace where I can scream aloud
beyond all measures my pain has grown
why does my love still stands so proud?


I love working through the day and night
so that no one can guess the reason true
within this very heart a battle I fight
I live and I die each day anew
Oh Lord! Beholder of all light
why the days when I lived, were ever so few?



Why??

Mother Nature

Did u?


Did u ever try listening to birds?
ever wondered what they sing, their words?
to me they speak of the wind and the sky
they urge me to spread my wings and fly
they fill my heart with joy of their song
i feel so light and i feel so young


Did u ever try smelling the flowers?
ever wondered where from they get their colours?
to me they smell like the effervescent musk
in a short lived life from dawn to dusk
they fill my life with sweetness so kind
it rejuvinates my body, refreshes my mind


Did u ever try looking at the sea?
ever wondered how vast it would be?
thousands of treasures that it holds inside
the plethora humbles me, sublimes my pride
forever so constant, never ending and more
like the waves forever beating at the shore


Did u ever try climbing the mountains?
ever wondered where from comes the fountains?
the wild, the woods and the rocks so strong
sheltering the animals and the bird among
so high, so proud, so majestic, so tall
a wise old sage, a learned know-it-all


Everything in nature teaches something new
no matter how small, never mind how few
the sun, the wind, the land, the stream
bestows us all with virtues supreme
my heart filled with mirth and merit
touched by the creator's divine spirit



Cheers

From this moment on

From this moment on
There will be no place to belong
Destiny lies ahead so long


From this moment on 
I must proceed, I must move on
Coz my journey has only begun


I need to travel to the end of all roads
To seek thy heavenly abode
I need to cross all rivers and streams
Need to rise above all earthly screams
Doubts and fears now fog my mind
Need to break free, leave all that behind
The path I go, can carry no burden
No anger, no greed, they are all forbidden

From this moment on
There will be no place to belong
Destiny lies ahead so long



All that I learned, all that I have known
The very seeds, from which I have grown
Gotta get over all that's said and done
Gotta cut my roots, I gotta go alone
Nothing more to see, nothing else to speak
Nothing more to hear, nothing else to seek
I can't give up, I can't be tired
This is all that I ever desired

From this moment on
There will be no place to belong
Destiny lies ahead so long



With all my courage, I gotta beat defeat
No matter how harsh and rough, the fates treat
I need to brave my way to a long distance
Can't settle for a path of least resistance
I carry nothing, but still not empty handed
Need nothing, when all your wishes are to be granted
No thoughts to ponder, no time to track
For some farewells, there aint no turning back

From this moment on
There will be no place to belong
Destiny lies ahead so long



The place I go, there aint no friend or foe
Only hopes in heart and dreams to know
Long have I suffered, long have I been scared
Long have I tried, so long I prepared
Fruitless are vows that you never follow
Can no longer lead a life so shallow
But still it is never too late to start
I got nothing more than the faith in my heart

From this moment on
There will be no place to belong
Destiny lies ahead so long

From this moment on 
I must proceed, I must move on
Coz my journey has only begun

Descant

There is a new delight in my flavor of life these days
I am waiting for my incumbent dreams to take flight these days
I kinda feel butterflies at times in a very weird way
There is a certain portion of me behaving as a child these days!

My lips sing on their own accord in so many poetic ways
My feet start tapping to an unknown music in so many graceful ways
My eyes are full with hopes I was scared to dream until yesterday
My heart is painted in beautiful colours in so many indulgent ways!



Is this a dream to be broken with the slightest touch of reality?
Is this a trance to be shaken off as soon as reason breach this tranquility?
I am scared to let go this hope, this urge & I fail to reason why!
All I wanna do is engulf myself in the brightest realms of possibility

Dreams are meant to be broken, and so do everybody preach
Trances are supposed to be shaken, like all wise men teach
But my hope it seems, has got a heart and a mind of its own
Can't be restrained by impossibilities, no matter what logic beseech!

There is a new delight in my flavor of life these days
I am waiting for my incumbent dreams to take flight these days
I kinda feel butterflies at times in a very weird way
There is a certain portion of me behaving as a child these days!



God if this feeling can last, please make this last forever
If this is what i have been waiting for, don't let it be over
Can't believe its been inside so long, unpronounced & docile
I hope it stays with me, completes me, and may it leave me never

I will never know what lies in future for me to go ahead
But i know that tomorrow is for sure and the past is so dead
Thousands of desires in my mind just waiting to unleash
Isn't it better to rejoice this life, rather than crib instead? 

There is a new delight in my flavor of life these days
I am waiting for my incumbent dreams to take flight these days
I kinda feel butterflies at times in a very weird way
There is a certain portion of me behaving as a child these days!



My spirit sweetly sings in a new rhythm, unheard before
& my mind visualizes beauty of a unearthly kind, unseen before
I sense an energy which keeps pushing me to test extremes
and a vigor to chase the desires, i failed to notice before

Its a mirage I am chasing, don't know if it's water ahead of me..
Its a game I am playing, gambling with fate to uncover a part of me..
But I don't mind losing, if I can live this life dictating my terms
B'coz I would know whatever I chose, it will be an expression of me!



There is a new delight in my flavor of life these days
I am waiting for my incumbent dreams to take flight these days
I kinda feel butterflies at times in a very weird way
There is a certain portion of me behaving as a child these days!

My lips sing on their own accord in so many poetic ways
My feet start tapping to an unknown music in so many graceful ways
My eyes are full with hopes i was scared to dream until yesterday
My heart is painted in beautiful colours in so many indulgent ways!




To life and more......

Heaven on Earth

Last morning as I woke up to sunrise
saw a dazzling light to my own surprise
Always knew that I was God's special kid
But this time it came stronger than it ever did
a realization that I have been so very "BLESSED"

Blessed with a family, I feel proud to call mine
to share my joys & woes, a gift divine
Blessed with warmth & care, when times were low
showered with encouragement, for the highs I grow

I had my share of light & dark
I had my share of rise & fall
and enjoyed every moment as I was growing tall
Oh yes, I had them all

Can never wish to have been someone else
Or wish to have lived another way
Can never wish to be reborn again
what I have now is HEAVEN in every way!


Last afternoon as I was passing through my day
sensed an untouched feeling coming my way
Always knew that I was God's special child
But this time it came stronger, much more than mild
a realization that I have been so well "TREASURED"

Treasured by teachers who went on to guide
giving me sense to make out wrong from right
Treasured by elders & mentors, people I admire
gave me knowledge to know myself, kindled the fire

I had my share of shallows & depths
I had my share of black & white
learning each day, trying my best not to fall
Oh yes, I had them all

Can never wish to have been someone else
Or wish to have lived another way
Can never wish to be reborn again
what I have now is HEAVEN in every way!


Last evening as I was walking alone
heard a whispered voice I can call my own
Always knew that I was God's special kid
But this time it came stronger than it ever did
a realization that I have been so much "ADORED"

Adored by strangers who went on to be friends
to be dear to them, near enough to make amends
Adored by buddies nonetheless was I weak or strong
to celebrate the rights, to crib for the wrongs

I had my share of good & bad
I had my share of old & new
some memorable times, painted like pictures on the wall
Oh yes, I had them all

Can never wish to have been someone else
Or wish to have lived another way
Can never wish to be reborn again
what I have now is HEAVEN in every way!




Last night as I was lying on my bed
felt a sudden random thought crossing my head
Always knew that I was God's special child
But this time it came stronger, much more than mild
a realization that I have been so truly "LOVED"

Loved by some dear ones, making me beautiful inside
in ways so sweet & deep, felt so happy that I cried
Loved to be freed, to be touched to the core
lending me a chance to spread my wings and explore

I had my share of triumphs & defeats
I had my share of trues & blues
some moments to cherish, moments to recall
Oh yes, I had them all

Can never wish to have been someone else
Or wish to have lived another way
Can never wish to be reborn again
what I have now is HEAVEN in every way!



Cheers!

A Mouthful of Sky

A sword unsheathed....cutting through my arms
A blithe, a sting....running through my veins
I cant breathe easy...with no dreams but dread
Hard to live on lies....when truth is so dead
Oh and I desire...desire for wings to escape & fly
How much do I crave for a mouthful of sky!


Living in the void...between apparent extremes
Running in the wild..ignorant of true dreams
Chasing what's slipping off...or may be already gone
searching for a soul... may be nothing or no one
Oh and I wish...wish for another chance to try
How much do I crave for a mouthful of sky!


Years turn by....Oh! yes the times yield on
So much shed & lost....hard to leave the bygone
Sinking through sand...I search my oasis of hope
Illusions veil my vision.....it a mirage to elope
Oh and I want....want this insane thirst to dry
How much do I crave for a mouthful of sky!


Spinning through the mace...of a lifeless life
Giving in to greed & more...fueling worthless pride
Never won't complain...the choices were all my own
Just a small regret...to have been left so alone
Oh and I pray...pray for that courage to deny
How much do I crave for a mouthful of sky!


Oh Yes! I do crave... crave immense and inane
for a handful of blossoms
an eyeful of beauty
a earful of music
and a youthful of joy
for a heartful of faith
a pitcherful of dreams
a blissful of laughter
and a soulful of love
for a breath-full of wind
an armful of warmth
a dip-full of sea
and a bountiful of wonder
for a day-full of sun
a night-full of stars
a light-full of moon
and a meaningful of "I"

Oh! So much so I crave for a mouthful of sky!


In search of my sky.....

Man v/s Destiny

Since times I was a kid, so I often wondered
Staying up late at nights, so often I pondered
what is it! this so-called destiny?
what is it! this omnipotent destiny?
why are we all so surrounded... in a puzzle so deep?
why do we end up so grounded... when it gets a chance to peep?
why are we mere chords in its divine symphony?
what is it! this so called destiny?

Its a barren soul we own at the beginning
A truthful heart, a start of age
Its an empty page in the journey of planning
A spotless mirror, a sinless sage
We live through life and then we grow...
we learn the games with rules we know...
we work, we toil, we make and we fake...
we rust, we struggle, we try and we break...
No matter all that is said, and all that is done
All that we shy to admit, but still hold on
why are we mere chords in its divine symphony?
what is it! this so called destiny?

Its a battle of life, fought with no apparent enemy
A skillful master, strikes with a smiling face
Though kind to some, but heartless & vain to many
A mirthful lord, devoid of respect or grace
It plays one turn and then it waits...
showing the carrots and the baits...
it hides, it smiles, it gives and it takes...
always promising unknowns, balancing the stakes...
No matter what's shown or carefully hidden behind
It's such a steep climb, and you are folded-blind
why are we mere chords in its divine symphony?
what is it! this so called destiny?


So shall we give up? Coz there ain't no point trying..
Should we not be happy? Coz we might end up crying...
Is it worthy for man to live a life so lame?
Is it honorable to just keep passing the blame?
So shall we stop living? Coz there is a threat of dying...
Should we all fall down? Coz we can't dream of flying...
Is it wise to give up on one's very own name?
Is it appealing to go extinct without kindling a flame?
No I refuse to give up
and I refuse to give in
No I would never give up
and I would never give in

I refuse to be led alone by destiny and its rules
I stand to defy the world and its presumed rules
Refuse to be a mere puppet in its divine symphony!
making inroads in my so-called destiny!

May be I will fall
May be I will die
May be I would perish
May be I would cry
But I would have tried to die an honorable death
would be happy that I fought to the last of my breath
Can't be a mere puppet in its divine symphony!
making inroads in my so-called destiny!
No I cant bow my head
with a heart so full of fears
No I cant live on a prayer
with eyes so full of tears
Coz there is a rebel within, that seeks a chance
to be led in the open, filled with ideas & romance
I can't be a mere puppet in its divine symphony!
making inroads in my so-called destiny!
May not be a win
Be it an utter defeat
May not be a successful attempt
hard work may run obsolete
But I would have known limitations of my self
for those rich in courage, even heavens turn to help
No! I won't be a mere puppet in its divine symphony!
making inroads in my so-called destiny!


~Sucheta